If you think you can understand women you are fooling yourself.
“I must have really dropped the ball, that girl won’t return my calls,” my friend sighed.
“You did nothing wrong, so quit thinking about it,” I replied.
Never think you can understand what is going on in a woman’s mind. Many of them don’t get any smarter as they get older. For many years, I believed that my incorrect actions were ruining perfectly good relationships in the making. I’d have a great romantic date with a girl or great sex and then she wouldn’t return my calls.
I have so many examples of this kind of behavior, I could write a 300 page book. Here are a few. I met a very hot looking blond in a bar in the next town. When the bar closed, we left in my car for the hour drive back to my apartment. While driving, even before I can get back to my apartment, she’s rubbing my leg, then my dick, then she sucking my dick. We got home and went straight to the bedroom and spent the next several hours fucking. Then in the morning we wake up and have another session of hot sex. After that, she writes her phone number down and I drive her the hour home. Two days later, I call the number and it the wrong number. I know where she works so I call her at work. She hangs up on me. When I call back the second time she puts me on hold! We never go out again. Did I give her too much dick?
Another time I took this cute young girl, who was wearing shorts and a midriff top stretched across her ample breasts and exposing her flat stomach, to an outdoor concert in the park. The band sucked so we just drank and lay on the blanket and hugged. We got back to her apartment and began to kiss and I fondled her breast. Finally she forced me to go home. I couldn’t wait for the second date. There never was a second date, because she never returned my calls.
Therefore, beating your head against the wall to figure out what you did wrong is a total waste of time! I’d say the answer is, “She’s Just Not That into You”. There was a famous book for women about relationships called: He’s Just Not that into You. If she was into you and not crazy she wouldn’t be gone!
You are probably wondering why that girl you had wonderful sex with is no longer returning your calls. Quit beating your head against the wall trying to figure out what you did wrong. It is better not to waste your time wondering about the behavior of women. Girls are emotional, illogical, or even worse totally “fucked up” and you are not going to be able to figure out why things changed so quickly. I’ve had this happen with so many girls, that I’ve come to understand it this way.
This video shows what is going on in a girl’s mind is entirely different than what you believe she is thinking. It’s a takeoff on a popular erotic novel by E. L. James called 50 Shades of Grey about some girl who gets into S&M with a guy. It’s like one of those “9 ½ Weeks” movies. This video is called “50 Shades of Blue”. But the insanity you see here is what goes on in a girl’s mind.
Don’t try to second guess yourself what you did wrong. The truth is you did nothing wrong. No, you didn’t drop the ball. With a normal girl you would still be in a good relationship with her. This one is not normal or “she’s just not that into you” or maybe just fucking crazy! Forget her, and don’t spend a minute trying to figure out what you did wrong. If you were a gentleman, you did NOTHING wrong. She just a typical girl:
FUCKED in the HEAD!
I thought the video did an excellent job of describing the crazy-quilt of the average American woman’s mind. It only takes about a 15-minute talk with the average American woman to realize she’s insane and it only gets worse after you hook up with her. It seems that along with being a lover, free (and expensive) meal provider that ALL women are wanting their men to be their therapists as well. Most of these women have NO idea what real suffering is like and their issues are trivial as hell and usually involve some minor squabble at their workplace or some supposed slight by a friend. I think most of them need to be forced to live and work in a 3rd World country for a few years at local wages there and when they return to America maybe they won’t be so quick to complain over petty bullshit here.
Women love drama and will create it where none exists. So how could you ever understand what is really wrong when they create the problems themselves!
This behavior trait of chicks just disappearing for no reason, even if you did fuck her, is very common here in Argentina as well. The average female world wide has a certain amount of worms in her head. Just the way they are.
I think it is absolutely stupid where PUAs analyze other guys’ chat sessions with girls like they are Monday morning quarterbacking. “What you said in this line was wrong and very beta, therefore you didn’t build attraction like this more alpha line would have.” “This line of text wasn’t alpha enough so that’s why you lost the girl, because she has no respect for you.” All of this is just mental masturbation which is just a waste of time and you are only fucking with your own mind.