For 90% of the Western women, sex is of little importance.  Most seem not to like it.  In college you find lots of girls that like it or maybe I should say they experiment with it because they are told they should like it.  As they find out they’re not into it or they can’t get off, they engage in it less and less.  As women get older, sex will diminish until they reach menopause in their 40’s.  By this time women are dry and can’t enjoy sex and actually go out of their way to avoid it.  Now there is that 10% of the women that will shout that I’m crazy, because they still enjoy it.   They are the vocal 10%, the cougars, and the other 90% will deny it because they feel it will make them look bad.

The other 90% of women that don’t like sex are the quiet majority and are like the guys who never get laid.  You’ll never hear from them, because they are embarrassed about their predicament and feel it shouldn’t be happening.    How do I know this is true?

1. Dated women that did not like sex
2. Girlfriends that became asexual
3. Female good friends confided their lack of interest
4. 10% of the girls are Doing 90% of the Fucking
5. The Survey of What is Important to Women

I’d like to briefly go into each of the five.  Unfortunately, I’ve dated some beautiful women who did not like sex and did everything they could to avoid it.  Sorry, but if a women doesn’t like sex, she probably never will.

Several of my girlfriends that originally liked sex, later became asexual.  This is a very common occurrence.   Just look at all the sexless marriages.  Women lose interest in sex, because they never liked it too much to begin with is the first reason.  The second reason is they go through mental changes such as you’re not treating them the way they want to be treated, so they withhold sex.   Thirdly, is what I call “pussy problems”.  Hell they don’t have gynecologist for nothing!  There are whole books written on this, so I won’t waste any time here on it.  I’ve had girls with “pussy problems” and they didn’t do what they had to do to resolve them.  They didn’t resolve them, because they didn’t like sex that much….enough to get things working again!

I’ve had a few attractive female friends that told me about their lack of interest in sex.  One woman I worked with was very attractive, confided in me that she no longer enjoyed sex at all, even though she would go through the motions with her boyfriend.  She told me she had been faking enjoyment for over a decade and would rather watch TV than have sex!

Only 10% of the girls are having 90% of all the sex!  This sounds shocking, but is true.  Just ask anyone who is out playing a lot.  These are the girls that are wild, some would be called sluts.  The other 90% just aren’t out there engaging in sex frequently!   Sorry to disappoint you guys!

The Survey:  What is really important to women?

I had a girlfriend who was a nymphomaniac.  What do I mean by that?  I mean she loved sex and she could do it 24 hours a day if you let her.  She never got tired and never turned me down.  God bless her!   She and I used to bang for hours.

She was amazed at the lack of interest in sex by other girls she knew.   She created a survey originally consisting of 3 activities important to women, which we later expanded to four.

Initially, she asked all the women she knew to rank the following activities in order of importance.

1. Sex
2. Shop
3. Eat

I added the 4^th Sleep.  So our list was these 4 activities:

1. Sex
2. Shop
3. Eat
4. Sleep

She asked all her friends to rank the activities in order of importance, from one to four.  The answer was NOT sex.   It was almost always the last in importance to women older than college age.  My girlfriend was 29 years old and she was asking girls from 20 to 40.  I don’t think she asked any college girls because she was working at the time.

She was a social worker doing good things for mankind and not in a high stress career.  If she would have asked high-stressed corporate career women the results would have been the even worse:  sex would have always been at the bottom.  The big difference all of them would have asked is why career not on the list?  They would have required it to be added, and then chosen it as number one!

Sadly, it appears that after women have finished college, about 90% of them do not care very much about having sex.   Guys will scream that is not true, because their girl likes sex.  Sorry guys it’s true!  Those 10% of the girls that love sex are making it around to all the guys.  This will be discussed in a future post. 

The survey results varied a bit in order of women’s priorities, but about 90% of the girls surveyed ranked their favorite activities in the following order:

1. Shopping
2. Eating
3. Sleeping
4. Sex

Sex came in dead last, as it probably still would today.  Since the survey was done over a decade ago, I am guessing that if asked today most women would list “Eating” as their number one priority.  Given that the average American woman weighs over 152 pounds (70 kilograms) and given the proliferation of food shows and several TV networks dedicated entirely to cooking and eating, this is probably a reasonable guess.  I am certain that sex would still finish dead last!     

1. Eating
2. Shopping
3. Sleeping
4. Sex