PUA gurus that teach other young guys, profess to have been nerds in high school and college. But once they discovered PUA they now have “seen the light” and know how to Game girls. I think the biggest Game is being played on the inexperienced guys that believe all these bullshit claims. I don’t understand why this Born-Again logic is helpful. So the PUA confesses, “I was a nerd and didn’t get laid until I was 29, but now I found Game, and I’m a “born-again” PUA instructor.”
I for one don’t want to learn tennis from a 29 year old guy who never picked up a tennis racket until he was 27, when he discovered tennis! My guess is I could learn a lot more from a guy who picked up his first tennis racket at 6 and played on a high school team, then on a college team, and now he’s teaching lessons. This is a guy I think I could learn from, but not some “born-again” tennis player.
So let’s just say you get a “precocious” instructor, and he was only a virgin until he was 23, but now he’s a Pick Up Artist at 24. “Duh, I don’t think you can teach me anything, except how you managed to stay a virgin until you were 23. That would be a funny story!”
I grew up before there ever was a PUA. I leaned Game by trial and error. I learned on the street corner, you could say. There was no PUA. I did things that worked and I eliminated things that didn’t. I repeated what worked. I had my first girlfriend at 6 years old, a tomboy, and I kept learning about girls. I learned what girls liked, what made them laugh, what excited them. These were not tricks, but a process of becoming a desirable person that girls wanted. So by the time Mr. PUA Guru teacher had gotten laid at 23, I had been going out with girls for 17 years! That’s right 17 years of experience! By the time I was 12, I had “felt off” my first breasts even though there wasn’t much to feel. By 13, I had my hands in a girl’s pants and then at 16 I had my first sex! This doesn’t include playing doctors at a young age too.
So by the time Mr. PUA Guru got laid his first time at 23, I had been banging girls for 7 years. That’s a lot of practice and going out with a lot of girls. So I for one wouldn’t want to learn Pick Up and seduction from a 24 year old nerd! So why would you?
One other thing, that I’m 100% sure of, is that the best PLAYERS are not out there teaching PUA! They are staying silent and don’t have the time to teach because there is little money in it. They are too busy in the arena: playing and succeeding!
PUA is just like the Get Rich in Real Estate, Multi-Level Marketing, Passive Income, 4 Hour Work Week, and other such schemes with grandiose claims that say you can give someone your money and they can teach you to be an expert at picking up girls and getting laid in a short period of time.